Andrew Weil is very open-minded for a doctor.
This is some fantastic advice on dealing with lupus, whether your own or your loved one's.
http://www.drweil.com/drw/u/id/QAA74996
He must have gone through some serious soul-searching to reclaim his humanity after surviving medical school. Amazing stuff.
Read it!
http://www.drweil.com/drw/u/id/QAA74996