Lupus and General Health chat Tues. 12/2 5:30pmEastern

Tuesday, December 2nd

5:30 pm to 6:30 pm Eastern time 

Hospital for Special Surgery and S.L.E. Lupus Foundation present:

Lupus & General Health Chat

Hosted on the HSS Facebook page:

http://www.facebook.com/hspecialsurgery  

Attendees will be able to ask lupus-related questions and get answers from a panel of experts, which includes rheumatologists, dermatologists, and social workers.

Sharing Your Experience, Strength and Hope with Others

I'm a contributor to the website Allexperts.com on the topic of lupus.
I frequently get questions from people asking me to diagnose them- they send me all their lab numbers and want me to tell them whether I think they have lupus.

I guess they figure allexperts.com is manned with MDs or lab techs who are answering these questions in their free (ha!) time, but no, it's usually just folks like me, a fellow patient with a few more years' experience.

And even if I were an MD, I don't think I would diagnose someone over the internet without actually seeing them in person.

Still, I am really glad people reach out for help and write to the website, because it's so important not to just sit at home alone wondering if you're going to be OK while you're waiting for 3 months to see the specialist, in patient purgatory.

Most recently I was asked whether lupus was genetic and whether there were any new breakthrough tests. Here is my response (with name removed):

Hi-
Thank you for writing.
I'm so sorry for all that your family has endured.

There still isn't really definitive proof that lupus is genetic, but there definitely seems to be a connection to pregnancy and things flaring up.

Regarding tests- I do not know of any breakthrough tests.
But I can tell you if you ever do get definitively diagnosed with lupus, the medical solution will be to suppress your immune system. That will give you relief from symptoms, but as you can imagine, going through life with a suppressed immune system has its own set of problems that come with it.

I don't know about you, but when I developed lupus and my body was turning against itself I wanted to know why, for heaven's sake! All these tests and drugs and diagnoses- but no one could tell me WHY?

20 years later (I was diagnosed in 1993 after 2 years of going to doctors getting one different diagnosis after another until they finally looked for lupus), I have come to believe that my illness was caused by chronic stress and a diet lacking any real nutrition. I drank a lot of diet soda and rarely ate a fruit or vegetable, worked at a job I hated, 6 days a week, and had no time for fun or for doing what I wanted to do with my life. Not a recipe for well-being!

In 2002, I had 2 mini-strokes and was on 9 drugs plus chemo and transfusions to get the lupus problems under control. I am now symptom-free and drug-free. I live a life I love and I eat a lot more real food (I'm not perfect- I do eat chocolate!).

I was tested for delayed food allergies (most regular MDs will not take that seriously), and after I eliminated gluten, dairy, and nutrasweet, all my lupus tests went negative- as in no sign of disease.

So... I'm just one person, but I'm one very healthy person who used to be very sick. In fact I'm healthier than most of friends who don't have lupus! I do aerobics 3-5 times a week (Sweatin' to the Oldies never gets old!)- this is something I only dreamed about when I was hobbling around using a cane, unable to leave the house for a month because I couldn't get up and down the one stair to the outdoors. We can get better.

I wish you well, my friend, and send you love light and hope
Carla



Having read and answered dozens of these questions now, I think most people who write in are looking for hope and reassurance, and to know that someone cares.  If you have some of that to offer in any area and are willing to give an hour or so a week of your time, hop on over to allexperts.com and sign up to be an expert. Or join a local support group, or an online chat group, if you have an illness, and be there to help people who have just been diagnosed. You might be surprised what you have to offer a fellow human being who needs a little support.

Carla Ulbrich

The Singing Patient: Author, Humorous Songwriter and Entertainer

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www.thesingingpatient.com- performance  info and dates
www.youtube.com/user/carlaulbrich - funny songs


"I am reading Carla's book How Can You NOT Laugh at a Time Like This? and loving it. I LOVE Carla's songwriting, so I'm not surprised that her prose writing is as smart, funny, and insightful as her music." - Christine Lavin

get Carla's book! http://tinyurl.com/348hroc

Lupus and Diet

Today I spoke/ sang for a support group at the SLE Foundation in NY City. What a great group of people.
Lots of great energy and ideas bouncing around, and I was heartened and inspired by the open-mindedness, strength, willingness and ease of communication. Right near Penn Station, too- really easy to get to!

I've mentioned this before, but I'll mention it again. Support groups for lupus have come a long, long way in 20 years. When I first became ill with lupus, support groups had 2 allowed topics: prednisone and lawyers. Any talk of alternative medicine or emotional stuff was shut down. So happy to say that is no longer the case. I watched today as a patient brought up her concerns about cellcept and placquenil to the rest of us, and we were all able to inform her of our experiences, helping to ease some of her anxiety and sort things out so she could make a decision. Beautiful.

From their wall (if this were a bumper sticker, it would be like "baby on board!"):

Typically when I talk, I tell my story and how humor, creativity, alternative medicine and diet helped me get my health back. When speaking to this group today, the focus was really about how I got to be in a drug-free remission, with all my hair and enough energy to do what I want to do in life. And we talked a LOT about diet. People interjected with comments and questions, which was great- I love an interactive dialogue, versus a monologue (90% of my gigs are a "performance" and all the audience does is clap and occasionally sing along when invited to do so). I learn things too. (For example, I did not know that 1/3 of lupus patients have RA and 1/3 of RA patients have lupus. Explains why the "purple jewelry" charm bracelet I have has both an RA blue ribbon and a purple lupus ribbon).

I was surprised how very interested- not just receptive, but really interested- these patients were in hearing about diet. And that is what we talked about most.

There are 2 diets I've seen out there which both claim to heal/ help/ even cure lupus patients:
Paleo Diet ("caveman" diet that is meat and veggies- and lots of raw food)
Lowfat Raw Vegan (no meat! but all raw food, both fruits and veggies).

Seems confusing- all meat, no meat- what's better?
Perhaps a better question is: what do these 2 effective anti-lupus diets have in common? And from what I can tell, it's a lack of dairy and a lack of grains, particularly gluten. This diet is known as the GFCF diet (gluten free, casein free- a.k.a. dairy free) and has been used effectively with numerous autoimmune diseases and autism.

My hope and dream in going to speak to lupus (and MS and myositis and RA) patients is to one day hear back from some of them that they tried a GFCF  diet, and it helped to reduce or eliminate symptoms, and helped them to reduce or eliminate their need for immune suppressants. And for those who have trouble learnign this diet on their own, I offer reduced rates for patients as a health coach, where I also support and educate people so they can relearn to eat in this somewhat counter-cultural way. It isn't easy at first, but it gets easier after you adjust. And even when it's at its hardest, it's easier than being on prednisone. I have my life back. My desire is to give this gift to others suffering from lupus.

If you or someone you know would like to have a free one-hour health consultation with me, whether it's about gluten-free or not- anyone who wants to achieve their health goals, big or small- please e mail me at healthcoach@bestpossibleme.com .

On another post I'll talk again (I have before) about the other 2 bugaboos I eliminated:
MSG and nutrasweet. Happy trails 'til next posting~

Carla Ubrich, The Singing Patient

www.thesingingpatient.com

www.bestpossibleme.com - health coaching

www.youtube.com/user/carlaulbrich- funny medical songs

get the book! http://tinyurl.com/348hroc

Finding Support

When you're feeling lousy, it can be hard to do something like get up and ask for - or even look for- help. I have been there. But I want you to know things can get better.
They don't usually get better all by themselves, though. It does take some work.
And I know it can seem hopeless, and endless at times.

But it really can get a whole lot better. It has for me. I was so sick I had a stroke and kidney failure, congestive heart failure, anemia, the whole 9 yards. I am now married, got my hair back, kept my kidneys (they are functioning normally), got full function of my hand back, and I'm happy.
I work out, teach guitar, wrote a book, I travel, I perform comedy-music shows, I go out and have fun with friends. I can even get an "A" on dance dance revolution. In fact, sometimes I'm doing so well, my lab tests turn up completely normal.

You would never know I had lupus if I weren't sitting here typing about it.

I say all that not to brag, but to let you know there is hope.

But none of us get better all on our own. We all need help, including and especially emotional support.

Not everyone is fortunate enough to have a lupus support group in their town. But there are some other resources.

There are lots of great chat rooms on the web, some of them specific to lupus. I like this one (though I haven't been on it for a while):
http://forum.wehavelupus.com/forum.php

 And this one seems quite active:
http://chronicbabeclub.ning.com/

This one has an active lupus section, but also sections for all kinds of other illnesses, and over 94,000 members:
http://www.healingwell.com/lupus/

Of course, meeting face to face is even better, if you're feeling up to leaving the house.
Start with the Lupus Foundation of America (LFA):
http://tinyurl.com/45gzkvq

If there aren't any chapters of the lupus foundation in your area, there may be some meetup groups. Go here and enter your zip code (Some groups cost a few dollars per meetup; some don't): http://meetup.com/

Sometimes there is a support group at your local hospital. Open up your options by attending groups for any autoimmune disease.

Additionally, when you're surfing around on the internet late at night lonely, bored, or in pain, there are a number of lupus blogs out there you can read (including mine) by bloggers who post about their journey. You can read, leave comments, or - if feeling ambitious- start your own blog to vent feelings and ask readers to interact.

This is the lupus foundation's blog, but if you look along the right column, there is a list of links to a bunch of blogs written by lupus patients.
http://lfa-inc.blogspot.com/

This is my blog:
http://lupusandhumor.blogspot.com/

Carla
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Carla Ulbrich, The Singing Patient, is the author of "How Can You *Not* Laugh at a Time Like This? Reclaim Your Health with Humor, Creativity and Grit"
http://www.thesingingpatient.com
http://tinyurl.com/4j8qfc4